approaches

An tragic or incident can trigger a massive change in an individual personality, affecting his mindset and his will in life. It change his overall approach in dealing with life. It's true...

I believe that each of us had own stories that might give significant impact on us whether it is positive or negative. The failure in the things we do and the decreased of our beloved one is the most common example. The pain we beared and the emotion breakdown we had... it bringing us down... BUT

No matter what happen, life goes on and we have to move on to the next chapter in our life. We have no choice. Instead of living in the past, why not we focus on the wide future ahead of us. Maybe something good will happen in exchange of the misery we had in the past. Moving on doesn't mean we forget the past. We will never able to wipe it completely from our memory...

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The pain in the past should be well remembered so that we can expand our mind into a more mature state. A friend of mine once say this " we have to get hurts in order to grow up." Live our life to fullest extend and do not afraid of getting hurts. We are growing up day by day and we will become better and better.

Patient is also an important criteria in dealing with life. I'm lack of this one... frankly..

I'm moving on... on certain things

p/s: thanks for being at my side, my beloved family and my nice caunselor^^ muahaha...

simple little happiness

Life is an open secret, anything can happen regardless of whether we like it or not. Good individual can gone bad. People change and so do us. Some time, we might be indecisive and clouded by our own ego.

These unnecessary emotion in a way affect our decision making until we screwed up lots of things, we disappointed lots of good people. It happens to me, when I think of who I am last few year, I'm such a bastard. I disappointed a lots of people BUT I'm a damn lucky because I always have these second chance. Do you have your second change but you just let it pass?

Tomorrow is still there, always have a smile in our face, as we always have time to make small changes, although we cannot undo what ever that happen BUT at least we play our role trying to make little efforts.

Although part of the world outside is bad, ugly and complicated BUT I believe that redemption, forgiveness and sincerity in life outweigh everything.

Each of us is special in our own way, because we grew in different backgrounds and surroundings. That is why our frame of mind is different, and this further affect our attitudes and insights towards every details in our life.

I strongly believe that us, who ever we are, what ever point of views and principles we are trying to uphold, I'm sure in the end all we want is just a simple happy ending.... a simple happy ending.

a simple little happiness in our life.

my prerogative

Time have passed very fast without we even notice it.. we are fully occupied by our assignments, design project & FYP for 4th year, tests and also other personal matters..

Throughout this period of time, some of us had unfortunately expressed some unnecessary emotion breakdown towards others... Well, I do... I became so irrational until I stepped in into others right and business..

Deeply I'm sorry for what I did, It wasn't the real me, it was me under tense and pressure of assignments especially design... With the remain time of my final year, all I want to do is make good memories with my friends...

Sometimes, busy life does do us some good, it make us appreciate our life, when we are busy, we long for all those free and enjoyable time we had once, see... all those busiest moment actually play some role, those enjoyable time will be nothing if we always have them... the feeling will not be the same...This is life, nothing is actually easy at the first place, each of us should work for it in our might, NEVER TAKE THINGS FOR GRANTED... and if you have ability of influencing others, never influence others to hurt the 3rd party, always remember, we are all the same, we do make mistakes in our life...

Dear friends, I love you all.. Let prepare ourselves in this final battle in our EXAM... Best wishes and best of luck!

Kwek.

silent is present II

when you speak, it is silent...

when you are silent , it's speak...

it's speak through your silents, people read you and interpret through your body language, your facial expression and your mood.

in the other hand, too much of speaking may disrupt the moments BUT the tongue of wise brings healing...

seek balance in everything we do especially in our words... if we are lost in our sight of direction, simplicity and balance is the answer...

p/s:
be happy, =)

many little things

Life is consists of so many little things, never-never focus your attention on one single things until you spoil others... If we able to seek balance among our responsibility, spiritual , emotion and relationship with others, we will become better and better in time. Please don't let emotion outweigh other part and overtake yourself.

Sometimes, life is like a rubber band, we cannot over stretch it and there is a moment that we must learn to let go and reduce the pressure on it. Over stretched of the rubber band will deformed it... Same goes with our life, just like the rubber band, in order to maintain the elasticity and efficiency of the rubber band, we must good in controlling our force apply on it. In our life, there is time we must be firm with ourselves and there is time we must let go.

In term of love relationship, both side must agree and faithful to each others. The principle of give and take must applied. If one side already lose the confident in the relationship, then that 's it. Game over. Please don't do nonsense things such as using shaman or spell on other party. I personally against this because I believe that the love between two individuals is very noble. In love, there is no force, mind control or whatever. Everything is pure and real from the bottom of our heart.

life is indeed busy and unexpected. Still can't believe that nowadays there is still nonsense people who believe that shaman will work in maintaining the cracked love relationship. If you fail in your relationship, there still a wide of choices out there. Get over it and be tough...

I love a girl and now I only wish that she is leading a happy and prosperous life... that's all matter now for the time being...

=)