silent is present II

when you speak, it is silent...

when you are silent , it's speak...

it's speak through your silents, people read you and interpret through your body language, your facial expression and your mood.

in the other hand, too much of speaking may disrupt the moments BUT the tongue of wise brings healing...

seek balance in everything we do especially in our words... if we are lost in our sight of direction, simplicity and balance is the answer...

p/s:
be happy, =)

many little things

Life is consists of so many little things, never-never focus your attention on one single things until you spoil others... If we able to seek balance among our responsibility, spiritual , emotion and relationship with others, we will become better and better in time. Please don't let emotion outweigh other part and overtake yourself.

Sometimes, life is like a rubber band, we cannot over stretch it and there is a moment that we must learn to let go and reduce the pressure on it. Over stretched of the rubber band will deformed it... Same goes with our life, just like the rubber band, in order to maintain the elasticity and efficiency of the rubber band, we must good in controlling our force apply on it. In our life, there is time we must be firm with ourselves and there is time we must let go.

In term of love relationship, both side must agree and faithful to each others. The principle of give and take must applied. If one side already lose the confident in the relationship, then that 's it. Game over. Please don't do nonsense things such as using shaman or spell on other party. I personally against this because I believe that the love between two individuals is very noble. In love, there is no force, mind control or whatever. Everything is pure and real from the bottom of our heart.

life is indeed busy and unexpected. Still can't believe that nowadays there is still nonsense people who believe that shaman will work in maintaining the cracked love relationship. If you fail in your relationship, there still a wide of choices out there. Get over it and be tough...

I love a girl and now I only wish that she is leading a happy and prosperous life... that's all matter now for the time being...

=)

09:09:09

09:09:09

Suddenly I realized how fast time had past without we even noticing about it. Life been very busy these past few weeks. Each of us indulged in our own dilemmas.

In my circle of life, few of my close companion are homesick... Some are not satisfy with their physical state claiming that they are fat and etc. Some are still losing themselves in their lavish world & yet they didn't even show little remorse.. Some are losing grip over their own believe & pride.Well, this is life~ in our current age I believe whatever happen each of us should be able to pick up ourselves all those fallen pieces every time we fall down. We have to~ in order to move on.

Recently, I learned that if they don't ask, they usually don't need the information or any help from us. Further inquiry from us will only worsen the situation. No matter how good our intention are, whatever we do to help, things still go the other way round. Oh damn!

In my blog I seldom mention personal stuffs BUT recently I noticed that I'm a shape shifter. In brief, I change my attitudes, behaviors and insights every time I'm adapting in a new surrounding. This is not good. In a way, I don't have a strong foundation in my life. From place to place or time to time, I change. Yes, maybe I'm adapting fast but still this is not the real me I think. I think.

I'm still trying to figure out these puzzles of my life. I will become better in time~it's a promise.

these are few random important moments that I want to treasure~LOL

denai hidup

Ada kalanya dugaan adalah perlu dan merupakan elemen yg penting dalam kehidupan kita

Jika denai kehidupan kita menyusur tanpa sebarang dugaan/ujian, ia pasti akan merencat nilai dan kualiti kesyukuran kita.

yang tinggal hanya keseronokan mengisi jiwa raga kita tanpa perlu adanya peranan dan tanggungjawab kepada keluarga, masyarakat dan negara

kehidupan sebergini yang tanpa halangan dan tak perlu hadirnya usaha seolah-olah tak membawa apa-apa erti

hidup kita seolah-olah kosong kerana segalanya seolah-olah statik, tak perlu bersyukur kerana dugaan tak pernah ada.

sebaliknya, jika kita melihat dugaan/ujian yang datang dengan kanta yang membina, persepsi yang baru ini pasti memberi pengertian baru pada kehidupan kita, kelakuan yang positif bisa mengguris senyuman serta memberi nafas baru kepada kehidupan kita dan mereka yang berada di sekeliling kita.

baik "homesick" mahupun kekangan wujud dalam pekerjaan seharian kita, semua itu tak menjadi masalah besar sekiranya kita tenang dan rasional dalam mencari alternatif terbaik kepada dugaan tersebut. Mungkin masalah emosi ini sukar untuk kita bendung, tetapi setidaknya kita mencari ikhtiar dan kita tak putus asa.

Denai senantiasa ada untuk kita menyusurinya... dan jalan mesti sentiasa ke depan bukan ke belakang, mungkin sekali-sekala kita menoreh ke belakang untuk mengutip secebis pengajaran tetapi pastikan kita menoreh balik ke hadapan dengan segera agar kita tidak jatuh tersepak batu di depan.

Keluarga dan teman rapat akan senantiasa di sisi kita tak kira apa yang berlaku, ini adalah pasti!