rahsia memahami sesuatu

Saturday, January 31

Sejauh manakah kita memahami diri kita? kita sharusnya berusha mengenali diri kita sendiri dengan lebih mendalam, siapakah diri kita yang sebenar di dalam hati kita, adakah kita jujur dengan warna kehidupan kita? adakah kita hipokrit? dan ketahuilah bahawa setiap rentetan peristiwa yang berlaku walaupun sekecil zarah ada hikmahnya dan mempengaruhi diri kita dan persekitaran kehidupan kita.
Kehidupan ini bukan sahaja berkisar sekitar perlakuan memberi dan menerima, malahan mempunyai erti yang lebih meluas. cuma ianya tak mampu disedari oleh hati nurani yang lemah dan minda yang rapuh ini....

Dalam kehidupan, kita dikehendaki membuat pilihan yang pelbagai setiap hari, kita memilih kursus elektif yang sesuai, kita memilih warna baju yang kita pakai, semuanya adalah atas diri kita.. Suatu masa, kita membuat pilihan yg tepat, kita seronok dan berasa bangga. Kadang-kala kita membuat pilihan yang salah dan kita tersungkur...
Sebenarnya, semua ini membuat kita lebih dewasa, walaupun tersungkur tetapi jangan kecewa, pastikan kita tahu berdiri semula dan membersihkan habuk dan kotoran di badan, teruskan langkah kita dgn senyuman dan peringatan di hati bahawa kita takkan terjatuh di tempat yg sama untuk kali kedua. Inilah kehidupan, penuh dgn pancaroba pahit manis kehidupan.

kehidupan ini sebenarnya sangat mudah nan indah, lihatlah sekeliling kita, burung-burung berkicauan setiap pagi di kampus kita, keheningan bersukan di kompleks sukan pada setiap petang dan jugak pencemaran udara sekali sekala yang merimaskan kita, semua ini membuat kita berfikir dan memberi kepelbagaian reaksi kepada kita. Beerti bukan?
Hargai setiap detik pahit manis yang ada di depan mata kerna setiap saat yg berlalu takkan kembali. Setiap liku-liku pahit manis kehidupan yg kita tempuh pada masa lalu sbnrnya merupakan bekalan di dada utk menempuh kehidupan pada masa hadapan khususnya apabila kita melangkah ke alam pekerjaan. Malahan, pengalaman ini akan menjadi kenangan terindah pada waktu tua kita kelak.
Pengalaman merupakan guru yang terbaik bukan?

great pics, great quote

Monday, January 19
GONG XI FA CAI

“To love is to risk not being loved in return. To hope is to risk pain. To try is to risk failure, but risk must be taken because the greatest hazard in life is to risk nothing.”

“Love comes to those who still hope even though they've been disappointed, to those who still believe even though they've been betrayed, to those who still love even though they've been hurt before.”


Regardless of who you are, your skin color or where is your origin, remember always turn to your own religion, have faith in them, those who are faithful in their religion often have more peace of mind.
"Religion divide us but Faith unite us all"

what comes around goes around, treasure every moment even though it is bad as it is only once in our lifetime... whether we are happy or sad, it is the outflow of life...

No battle of any importance can be won without enthusiasm, with consistent level of enthusiasm, we can do anything that is within our range of capability.

“I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character.” Martin Luther King,Jr

For myself, i think that we human being are limited not by the place of our birth, not by the color of our skin, but by the size of our hope.

“Self-confidence gives you the freedom to make mistakes and cope with failure without feeling that your world has come to an end or that you are a worthless person.”

“To maintain a joyful family requires much from both the parents and the children. Each member of the family has to become, in a special way, the servant of the others.”
without them, we are nothing... whatever we have now or we had achieved today, it is their hard work...

“Count your smiles instead of your tears, Count your courage instead of your fears.”

“Allow yourself to be inspired. Allow yourself to succeed. Dare to excel.”

putting a full stop

Friday, January 16
forgive & forget, that is what people always said...

It is a good advice but not practical,

when someone hurts us, emotionally, we want to hurts them back... when someone wrongs us, we want to be right...

the truth is that without forgiveness, old score never settled, old wound never heal...

and the most we can hope for is that one day people can forget the mistakes that is doned

whatever that is already doned cannot be undoned... thus, withdrawing the energy you put in thinking these problems might help alot... channel these energy to other things in your life... this is one of the effective way to think, WE try to see & focus on the bigger picture and endure all the current pain we had now...

This is life... remember, both bitterness & sweetness are the outflow of life...

For unnecessary things,
Learning to put a full stop to all these problems & conflicts we faced might be the only solution... saying NO over something you treasure is hard but sometime is it necessary in our life... We being given no choice, sacrifice must be made in trade for something bigger in the future..

Sometimes, let go is the only waY out... therefore, get over it, life goes on... JUST LET IT GO

Jews, knowledge, education & us

Tuesday, January 13
It is already 18 days, the whole world is stunned by the cruetly of Israel towards Palestine... Without any sense of remorse, the Zionis army keep continue their terror campaign, they kill people of all age even young and innocent children...

What is I want to hightlight here is that who are these Jews?

why they are so damn powerful on our mother earth?

the facts is they are only 14 million of them on Earth but the achievements, discovery made by Jews in science and technology is incomparable....

the Great Jesus of Nazareth is one of Jews that have great influence over mankind... Albert Einstein, the famous scientist is Jews.... Steven Spielberg, the great director of many great masterpiece is also Jews.... and many more others than contribute greatly to us...

For the past 105 years until now, Jews won 15 dozen nobel prizes.. us, Malaysian not yet won any Nobel prize.... are they gifted by god?


I don't believe that one race is created better than others... regardless of race, color of the skin, physical appearance or gender, I believe than we all are equal in term of our capability & ability, the only things that make us different from others is our thinking.... thus, education is the only way out...

Sincerely, we Eastern country especially South East Asia countries are still far behind in term of knowledge & education... this is the main reason why we are still left behind, we don't read, we studies only for exam... our mindset is already wrong from the 1st place... different framework of mind, our mind framework is too weak compare to the Western, maybe only few may stand up outstandingly but not all of us... most of us are still living our life lavishly not realizing that we far left behind....

In a nutshell, the only way to stand up par by par with these Jews is through education & knowledge... Hence, we should change our mindset... education & knowledge should be our 1st priority towards a brighter & Sustainable future... all of us & the world need time in order to change this scenario, Right Now, we should grab some books maybe newspaper and start reading....

All the best everyone,

(this fighting pic credited to The Puzzle of My Life, is yet to be complete)

The dream of our Life

Thursday, January 8
If the question is how big is our dream?

people will have stereotype answer such as..............

"my dream is to be this...... to be that...." most of us dream of something in our life... It is the nature of us, we are human being...

We don't know if we will succeed or not, most of us affraid & shy of the mistakes that we might encounter during our journey to our dreams...

but deep inside our heart realistically we want to give it a go, give it a try....

often these are the whispered inside our mind,

"Can I really fulfill my dream? I am scared... i'm not good enough, i'm too fat.... i'm ugly"

These are the stereotype scenario that happen to us... We often care about what the public see & judge us...

Do remember, nobody is perfect... We never satisfy everyone in this world... NEVER... therefore, you need to clean your lens.... don't let the public judge you, you judge yourself with your own scale... you only need to satisfy yourself....

although it is difficult, we must believe... the path of life is always filled with obstacles... it's depend on us how to see & solve these obstacles...

Some proactive people view the problems they encounter as the stepping stone to achieve greater height in their life... Some, see as disaster that hit them & react irrationally...

The decision is up to us... We control our action, We decide our attitude...

Keep dreaming but set an realistic deadline on it... along the process others might laugh at our dream, but it is our dreams that keep us alive and going forward....

sebelum cahaya

Saturday, January 3
Mungkin nanti terjadi sesuatu di belakangku, tapi bukan aku yang mau..
Dan jika aku bukan pilihan hatimu, ku kan tetap menjaga hati dan mengenangmu..

Takkan ku menghapus jejakmu kerna aku mau simpan kenangan terindah itu dalam selimut hati ini…

Andai ku tahu siapa yang tercipta untukku, pasti ku berhenti berharap menanti bintang di surga..

Demi waktu, pasti akan ketahuan siapa yg sempurna untukku..
Untuk pertama kali ku lakukan munajat cinta di ruang rindu sebagai sandaran hati ini…

Writer remarks:
this is the 1st posting in Bahasa.... It is abit out from Self Enrichment scope... Actually, It is more on describing my feeling...
(Deep appreciation & Credit to beHind siLver fRonD)

2OO9

Thursday, January 1
This whole New 2009 is like a New Diary book... We are the author of this book... We are the storyteller of this new Diary...
We make choices on what we going to write on it... We are going to decide what memories pics we want to attach to this diary...

Let the past experience of 2008 be our teacher to guide us, whatever mistakes we had done... let it be... Learn from it... Let the grieve, mourn & pain fade away with 2008... Spread our arm, welcome this whole New 2009....

This 2009,

We are going to make New Resolution & make big Changes, big Progresses in our Life this 2009...

Be a good Writer this 2009, write this 2009 diary with wonderful & meaningful things... attach beautiful pictures of memories on it... Jot down important mistakes that we did this 2009 so that it can act as a reminder for us... Finally everyone, Lead a happy & achieving Life....

BEST WISHES FOR COMING 2009.......